Assalamualaikum.

Dear people, sometimes i do think like "to tolerate our dislike'" is the most difficult thing in life. But then, i keep figuring it out and found the best 'heart-soothing' solution.

Actually, there's nothing much we could do about that (i might say we have a limited option) except for being positive, patient and praying to Allah to grant us more strength, gift and Jannah (it is part of motivation indeed). If only you could accept those 'stuff' like receiving a gift, that is so lucky of you, UNFORTUNATELY we are just mankind.

"Indeed, mankind was created anxious, when evil touches him, impatient, And when good touches him, withholding [of it], Except the observers of prayer, Those who are constant in their prayer, And those within whose wealth is a known right, For the petitioner and the deprived, And those who believe in the Day of Recompense.And those who are fearful of the punishment of their Lord" (surah Al-Ma'arij 20-27)

Another thing I keep reminding myself to always stay calm and not get angry easily. It probably may look simple to you but it is a big adjustment for me, you know.

Daripada Abu Hurairah r.a bahawa seorang lelaki telah berkata kepada nabi SAW yang maksudnya:

”Berwasiatlah kepada ku. Sabda Rasulullah SAW: “Jangan kamu marah.” Maka lelaki itu mengulangi kata-katanya berulang kali. Sabda Rasulullah SAW: “Jangan kamu marah” (hadith al-Bukhari)

Ya. Sesungguhnya kemarahan akan mengumpulkan segala keburukan. Jadi, jangan cepat marah even when we are dealing with negative people. Remember, we too, can't make everybody like us right? Just pray good for them coz sometimes it is imposibble for us to hate people that we pray everyday.

And 1 more thing. I have a good info here. Do try to read..

"Open-mindedness, flexibility, trust in other people: all these require certain cognitive abilities. Understanding and accepting others – particularly "different" others – requires an enhanced capacity for abstract thinking." (George Monbiot)

..and learn from it.